Permalink Reply by Cj on October 30, 2007 at 12:39pm
Heh.I was reading this thread and some of the things sound good.I even tried a few. Still i can't seem to get any girls.
I don't know if its me the aproach or my rep in school but any ideas?
Thanks.
Also remember that you are dealing with humans, which are about as consistent predictions. Sometimes they are right and sometimes they are wrong, my advise really is just play it optimistically, b/c if you don't you lose your chance.
Personally I have been through some tough relationships for some of the weirdest thing, but trust me going through a little bit of a rough time is a lot better then just wondering "what if?" for a long time..
Yeah definitely don't be too hard on yourself, there will be plenty of opportunities with different gals. Unless you go to a school that has a ratio of 90% male to 10% female, then things can be more difficult, but not impossible.
It helps if you have an idea of what you'd like to do on the date when asking someone out - then you can say "hi - would you like to *go jet-skiing in the Caribbean* this weekend" (for example) or "would you like to go see *movie you heard she's interested in* on Friday"..? Anyway, when I've been asked out, that seems to work best for me.
Tho the "killing and reanimating" thing would probably work, too.
Yeah doing something that you both really enjoy really works out, Halo surprisingly has been a very good one. Plus if things don't really work out, you'll still have a really cool friend.
Also the cliche of "long walks on the beach" is actually a good idea, b/c all it really is just talking and walking. My suggestion though is don't do it too long b/c the next morning your calf muscles could be sore like no other. Also just walking in the park may also be a good alternative if you don't have a beach. Also don't go to the beach if there is the red tide, hurricanes, tropical storms, physco crabs, ect. ect. ec.t
My advice:
Self confidence. Not too much, not false confidence. Women are attracted to confidence in men, among other things.
A practical way to become confident is to start working out. Get a gym membership or join a sports team. Get into a routine. It’s also a good way to meet other girls. A secondary benefit is that you will become strong, healthy and attractive. Your in school, that’s a good time to start.
A downside to this is that it takes a while, and requires dedication, but it’s defiantly worth it. Make no mistake girls go for the best guys too, or at least the ones they think they can get.
Also, don’t wait too long. Its soo unlikely that this is going to be your wife that its not worth considering. She doesn’t have to be the ONE, the perfect one. She has to be nice and a friend. Going out with a girl is about fun, and you may learn a thing or two, and sex don’t forget aobout sex.
Permalink Reply by Kat on October 31, 2007 at 12:21pm
This is so very true. Many girls are attracted to the athletic and/or strong. Plus being in shape, healthy and strong will give you real confidence! It takes work and dedication but it's definately worth it!
WOW. That is the wrong idea to give a kid that's 11. I've dated alot of women, some I would consider girls when I was younger. Big difference, and the one thing you can count on is there all different. The Woman I'm with now is the most down to earth hands down.
A girl that can pay her bills, drive her self around, cook, has hobby's and work two jobs is a 10 in my book.
LOL blow up dolls can not pay bills, drive, cook or have hobby's. I am sure she is still a 10 in your book possibly a 9 when you have to blow her back up!